...i would be using cathodes from (...) alto lamps
I dont think that is feasible. The emission material is applied in the form of a precursors and gets finished only after the tube is evacuated. Since then anyexposure to air will ruin it immediately, so unless you transfer the cathodes to the new lamp in vacuum, it is impossible to get working cathodes from an existing lamp.
You would have to get the cathodes in the form before tge activation, but I dont know where you could ever get such thing.
Way easier is to work with cold cathodes - these dont need that step and mainly they are available as readymade components for the neon sign shops.
I think a visit to some neon shop will really help you a lot there...