Yeah but I'm refering to residential lighting..noone has made any for that except dimmable CFLs which are very rare and difficult to dim. You can't expect a layman to go buy those parts right? Anyways I will go ahead with my simpler design and post it..
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Present systems designed for incandescents already include E27 sockets, so CFL format is the only non-incandescent option.
And if somebody build new installation basef on fluorescents, it mean new wiring anyway, so it is of no problem to lay the control wires together with the power ones, so there is no need to deal with troubles related to phase-cut dimmers (cost, disturbance, reliability, dimming range, dimming setting synchronization between multiple fixtures even at low levels,...), as e.g. "1..10V" system could be used.
Cases, when someone want to use present wiring, but upgrade to fluorescent fixture are quite rare, what mean no maker was interested to design special ballasts for it - they would not be profitable.
So what emerge were sets, what generate the 1..10V signal using some sort of wireless control. As these do not deal with any power, they are very simple, universal for all light sources (as "1..10V" dimmers are available for all of them), so may be made in reasonable volume for reasonable prices.
And there is one exception: Megaman's "DoRS" (they sell not only CFL's, but "mature" fluorescent ballasts with that system as well), that use power cycling by ordinary switch to select between few (usually four) intensity levels. Bad is, then there is no other means to resynchronize multiple ballasts on the same switch, then keep hem OFF for longer then the time-out period, so such multiple ballasts connection is rather problematic.
So if you want a bit more comfort (e.g. not to cycle trough all levels) and do not want the wireless (easy to be disturbed), you have to make some custom ballast system (e.g.
something like this ). By the way I'm convinced, then any 1..10V ballast would be possible to convert to the "polarity" controlled 3-way one...