Re: Already thinking about leaving. « Reply #1 on: March 21, 2021, 03:55:19 PM » Author: CreeRSW207
You are welcome by me! You have an awesome collection and you are most certainly Not worthless.
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	Re: Already thinking about leaving. « Reply #4 on: March 21, 2021, 04:00:09 PM » Author: Rommie
Don't leave. As I've said to other people in the past when they've been thinking of it, if you do this, anyone who is upsetting you or who you think is forcing you to leave has effectively won. Don't give them that satisfaction. As far as is possible, ignore them. If you're talking about another member here, then let us know who it is; if they post comments on your photos or topics, report them to us. We can take action, but only if we know the offender(s). I am in no way a qualified counsellor, but I have been told I am a good listener; I'm always open to a chat, either by PM or even phone if it helps. Take care
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	Re: Already thinking about leaving. « Reply #6 on: March 21, 2021, 04:09:52 PM » Author: Rommie
Quote from: desktoptrashcan on March 21, 2021, 04:07:14 PM It’s nice to see that some people actually care.  In my experience, it seems like most people just want me out of their life.  Been there, done that, got several T-shirts. Keep lighting those lamps (although avoid  if you can)
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	Re: Already thinking about leaving. « Reply #7 on: March 21, 2021, 04:14:45 PM » Author: CreeRSW207
Quote from: desktoptrashcan on March 21, 2021, 04:00:08 PM I’ve been going to a psychologist recently. It helps, that’s for sure. Today was just a particularly hard day for me. Depression is horrible. That’s good! I’m always here for a chat if you need me!
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Long live the Incandescent streetlights!
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	Re: Already thinking about leaving. « Reply #9 on: March 21, 2021, 04:46:16 PM » Author: LightsoftheWest
Quote from: desktoptrashcan on March 21, 2021, 03:48:20 PM I don’t feel welcome here. (Or anywhere, for that matter.) It’s not anyone in particular, it’s just the overall feeling that I get that I’m just not welcome because of who I am. If I could point out someone that’s not helping, it’s a certain person with their actual name starting with an R. Also my dad, but he had an abusive childhood, so I can’t blame him. Maybe I should jump off of a tower and relieve this world of my worthless presence?  Please don't leave. I'm always welcome. I have been struggling with anxiety and mild depression lately, and that's how I feel.
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	Re: Already thinking about leaving. « Reply #10 on: March 21, 2021, 06:59:20 PM » Author: CEB1993
We care about you and everyone who enjoys lighting is welcome and appreciated here on LG  I understand the struggles of anxiety and depression, having them myself, I can totally empathize. There is absolutely no shame in seeking help and I'm glad to hear you're seeing a psychologist. When you get to a bad place mentally and emotionally, just know there are compassionate and caring people right in your community (counselors, religious leaders, healthcare groups, and many others) who want to help you and listen to your story. I wish you the best and hope you find joy and meaning in life through your passion for lighting. Kind regards, Camden
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Stop the lamp bans!

	Re: Already thinking about leaving. « Reply #11 on: March 21, 2021, 07:01:50 PM » Author: Mandolin Girl
Somebody with such a brilliant username as yours can't leave.!!!
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	Re: Already thinking about leaving. « Reply #13 on: March 22, 2021, 01:00:58 AM » Author: wide-lite 1000
As I've said to other members here who've had issues here , I know it's difficult but ignore the people who don't like you and concentrate on the ones who do !! By giving up , YOU lose and THEY win !! Do NOT allow then to win !! Life is short enough already . Hang in there , things WILL get better !!
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	Re: Already thinking about leaving. « Reply #14 on: March 22, 2021, 02:09:44 AM » Author: thelightingman
You are welcome by me! If you need to talk, pm me.
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I think HPS, MV, and MH rule! Ban LED instead!