I'm very interested in vacuum tube audio when I'm not messing with lamps, and I've seen vacuum tubes being made live. I was told that all pass-through wires must be made from tungsten or else the seal will fail over time. I'm pretty sure it has something to do with the different expansion rates of materials vs the glass pinch itself. I'm sure using copper would work for a short while, but would probably fail quite soon. smashing the lead wire flat doesn't really make any difference, the molten glass flows all around it anyways, or at least it should. You need to have really good and even temperature to get a good seal

I may have a lamp somewhere that we can look at, I'll have a look!!