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Re: Life’s been rough « Reply #15 on: Today at 12:13:09 AM » Author: phosco179
Decided to bump this topic again because I’ve had another bad online incident, and on the same app too. There was this user that seemed nice and he even invited me to their group chat with other lighting enthusiasts (mostly European ones) and he used to message me quite regularly and ask how I was doing. He even supported me through when I was being bullied. However one day I was messaging him and he told me he couldn’t be with me anymore. I asked why and he just kept ignoring me. Then later I found out that he was apparently “being used” so he decided to block me completely.

I am honestly so close to quitting social media. It’s taken a toll on my mental health and I don’t think I can cope being on Instagram anymore. I’ve discovered that the lighting community is toxic, even the non-UK ones. Why does this keep happening to me? Every time I think I’ve found someone that seems nice and supportive, they decide to throw me under the bus for no reason. I’m thinking of privatising my photos and deactivating my account for good cause there’s no point in being on that site anymore.
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Re: Life’s been rough « Reply #16 on: Today at 09:32:14 AM » Author: BT25
Yep, dump it!
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Re: Life’s been rough « Reply #17 on: Today at 06:23:02 PM » Author: wide-lite 1000
 LG is about the only social media I use !  I use Facebook ONLY for Marketplace , a group for one of my old cars and to keep up with a friend of mine as it's the easiest way .

 Social media , even YouTube is a cesspool of keyboard warriors who like to hide behind the internet in order to be assholes !

 Eric is correct , dump all of it !!!
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Re: Life’s been rough « Reply #18 on: Today at 06:24:52 PM » Author: phosco179
I now deactivated my Instagram account and I have no plans of returning anytime soon. I’ll only stick to Lighting-Gallery to upload my photos from now on. Currently have none but I plan to upload them soon.
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Re: Life’s been rough « Reply #19 on: Today at 06:25:48 PM » Author: Baked bagel 11
Yeah, get rid of Instagram.
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Re: Life’s been rough « Reply #20 on: Today at 11:21:01 PM » Author: BT25
Social media , even YouTube is a cesspool of keyboard warriors who like to hide behind the internet in order to be assholes !
That sure is true, along with disinformation that preys on the gullible.  ::) (Its also a great waste of time.)
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