Thanks for the help and comments!
I have never done this sort of think before, but the guy I bought some of the equipment from is a DJ and has a production/installation business.  The controller is American DJ "Elation Professional".  The lights I have are mostly Chauvet LEDs.  I have six "PAR56", one "PAR64", two LED scanners and two American DJ REFLEX LED units.  I also have four "PAR64" 250 watt stage lights, that will be controlled by DMX with a "Elation DMX20L" controller.  I have been having parties in my shop for several years, but really wanted to go all out on this one!  I am about to add a disco ball with LED "pinspots", but will just turn it on manually.  I will post photos of the setup when complete.  I am excited to play around with this setup and really look forward to friends dancing and hearing the live performances!  Also not, I have a fog machine which REALLY makes the lighting look great and the dance area is surrounded with F40 BLB and F40/RED fixtures.  
