What's toxic in a SOX lamp..? Sodium possibly, but unless you go around eating it I don't see a problem.
Have you ever driven under LPS lighting..? Far better than anything else I've ever seen on the road. Colour rendering is not important; any of that you need is provided by your headlamps. Size of the lamp - yes they're large but as a consequence they don't appear as glare bombs the way smaller lamps do.
Barium at the electrodes to start with, getter mixtures,... All these tend to release once the lamp breaks in any way. Yes, they are present in pretty all discharges, but all spent discharges are dangerous waste due to these materials being used there, it is by far not only the mercury...
And yes, Ive been driving under SOX (from Brussels to Oudenaarde; pretty much all Be wa lit by SOX at that time), at night. Not during any fog nor heavy rain, but only at clear night and my impression was when compared to HPS around where I live normally, to me the HPS do better job. But I can not compare how it is e.g. during fog, even don't know if fogs are in some part of year a common thing around Brussel, where I live really dense fogs are pretty rare and both HPS and white LEDs seems to perform well, regarding visibility (definitely not worse than similar fog at daylight).
And to the glare bomb issue: If the lantern has a decent optics, it isnt going to be any glare bomb at all. To the contrary, the SOX Ive met in Belgium (pretty much all of them) seemed to me as way worse glare bombs than what I'm used to from HPS, MH and mosly many LEDs at home.
However many LEDs are glare bombs here, along with few HID types (mainly old MVs), but these I consider as s***ty or heavily outdated (mainly case of the old MV's) lantern optic designs, not fault of the light technology itself.
Is you are 100's m away, it does not matter anymore if the light source is 3cm or a meter long. Once it radiates large power horizonrally, it becomes a glare bomb. Or that is, how I percieved it. But again, maybe the really heavy fogs may change the game, but I havent encountered any, so can not judge.
Definitely SOX had their place in the past, when the accurate optics was not feasible. But in the 80's and 90's the optics around the HPS evolved so a 70W HPS was able to provide way better street illumination than a 90W SOX (side-by-side comparison in Oudenaarde, after apparent partial street upgrade)