I am not saying this is the case for anyone here but brains can convince themselves of very crazy nonsensical things. Having special interests is definitely a sign, and I'd venture to say that many people here have a special interest (lighting that is). Of course all the social stuff as well but not everyone here has those.
So yeah I do agree that probably 50% or more here are neurodivergent (a wild guess), but maybe many people think they are neurotypical despite signs pointing otherwise. I've certainly convinced myself of much more significant things with overwhelming opposing evidence. I would argue that whether or not you are under the technical category of neurodivergence is decreasingly important after you leave school, especially if it is support level 1. I also hear it's harder to diagnose in adults though I don't know if that's true or not.
I have not had a similar experience as I was diagnosed before I can even remember, so the question in my mind was never there. I think the diagnosis benefitted me, though opinions seem to vary as to whether a diagnosis is actually helpful or not.

